Different For Better

Change cannot be avoided.

Comparable to energy it too can neither be created nor destroyed. When left alone, change continues to provide ending that can be rather surprising, however, change can be manipulated to produce desired outcomes. Defined as, an act or process through which something becomes different, change thus is a constant and dictates one’s future outcome.

Change is a beginning and an end. One can’t tell where it begins or comes to an end, however, its presence is felt as each second passes by, as each minute elapses, as each hour cometh, as each day dawns. Change can be the beginning of something great or the end of something great. Change can also be the beginning of hardship or the end of hardship. Change happens regardless but whether or not it is change for the better or worse, is entirely on the respective person.

That said, often we see people fail to manipulate change to produce a desired, favourable or positive outcome.

Why is it one may wonder? One word: FEAR!

Throughout the years, fear of the unknown and uncertainty has taken control of peoples' lives. Often they resort to avoidance strategies but, change is almost always unknown and uncertain. What is alarming is that people never stop to consider what fear entails. After all when one is fearful, one limits themselves. Now if one is fearful of change, one undoubtedly limits change’s positive impact in one's life and instead attracts negative change which is for the worst. No one ever tells people that no change literally results in regression which is change in the inverse, where one backslides to a place where one becomes void of all resources that aid one's function in an ideal existence. Avoiding change thus is a catalyst that brings about change in the inverse of the desired positive change in one's life and therefore makes one’s existence timid. Change for the worst or change in the inverse is depicted by frustration in one's life; it is arguably the kind that has been willed upon one’s self without any intention.

Whereas positive change brings with it a variety new resources, efforts and lessons that equip one to succeed in one's endeavours, frustration is the result of resources, efforts and lessons have been depleted or are no longer of any use in one's walk in life. Frustration is often present with a defensive stance which is generally a sign that one is fearful and incapable of bringing about positive change in one's life.

How is positive change brought about?

Positive change is obtainable through the acceptance of one’s current situation or predisposition and interpreting it as a catalyst to get one moving in the right direction, where one’s dreams have been obtained and success runs wild. In laymen terms allowing one's predisposition to be the required kick up one's backside that gets one moving, moving forward in a positive light. For instance, in order to bear the desired fruits and bear them in abundance, a farmer, must continually prune the branches, till the soil and care for it, or in different words, the farmer must do all the necessary precautions or works that result in him or her yielding the desire fruit. One must therefore select a goal, what is essential for the goal to materialise and even trimming off all that leaches and weeds from of your life. One must set one's self standards that exceeds the ideals of one's current internal and external world and practise them, one must see where one want to be and adapt behaviours, mannerisms and practises that ensures success in obtaining this vision. One must avoid becoming comfortable or stagnant and strive for better at all times.

Bare to mind that new thought keep one on the cutting edge. A new thought is captivates and keeps one from being lacklustre. A new thought prevents one from creature comforts, virtually placing one out in the deep where one is surrounded by sharks and one either sinks or swims. New thoughts reinvent and drive one towards obtaining ones success, dreams and hopes. New thoughts are innovative and create countless opportunities for attainment of success, dreams and hopes. New thoughts open doors that enable improvement, allowing individuals to reach higher, further, better heights. New thoughts make one bold and fearless. New thoughts are revolutionary and make a difference. New thought are like new wine skins that preserve and keep the fresh wine good whereas old thoughts are like old wine skins that burst when fresh and do not preserve fresh wine when it has been put in them.

It is of utmost importance that one understanding that what lies in the head, is a great weapon that has the purpose of defeating. Potentially defeating your predisposition and realising your hopes and dreams, or, potentially defeating one's self, leaving one in ruins of the past while all else around has become new and has moved forward to a better height. Sure it is hard to censor what lies in one's head, ever so when adversity strikes but, one must keep faith and hold fast to the dreams, hopes and desires within.

That said, only you can decide to remove the nail from your head and stream new thoughts in constantly. The onus lies within your two hands. Only then will the beauty one hopes and dreams for materialise driving one forward and inspiring every sole around.

Change is constant but, maybe manipulated to occur for a positive outcome that make one the change one wants to see in one's life, stirring those around, encouraging them to move and claim their own.