When Vengeance & Vile Tactics Grow Old!

Many a times we are faced with scenarios where the only options we resort to are either vengeance or vile behaviour is all we can call upon. These scenarios are not quite few nor far between, they instead gallop at hasty speeds, trying to show that even the most honorable gentleman is in fact a fiend.

Reality is that, most people try and pull everyone down to their level, destroying your every stronghold with vigor and might. Perhaps it is reality that sinks into their measly heads that, where it not for their lack of valor, they too would be able to epitomise their very existence to feats of grandeur. However as sad as it may or otherwise sound, the idea of going out of your way to ruin what little integrity one has is unfathomable. How do you look at yourself in the face knowing that it was you that lead to someone else's loss of sight and purpose.

The most disheartening thing about all of this is that, the one who was on the receiving end, tends to turn for a life of bitterness filled with vengeance and vile traits that were unknowingly attained from you the aggressor.

The remedies are quiet simple and fully effective however, the greatest aspect to a remedy is in fact the acknowledgement of what is true.Denial is one deterrent the aids in you loosing your way and stooping to someone else's way of making a mockery of themselves. Simply put, we need acknowledge that there is however something that leads to us having obscene traits of vengeance and vile tactics. once you have admitted this, you need to assess how you react to all things in life in a positive and negative sense. This is essential as you will now know what truly makes you a happy being and what is reason for concern. You now have to use the positives in a manor that it outweighs the bad and is resultant in happiness. This alone is not going to be the end all, you need to now see how you can address scenarios that would have lead to ways of  vengeance and vile tactics. The easiest thing to do, is for you to remain calm, smile and move on to another place where this transgressor is not. They key idea is you moving on without and obscene remarks or guestures. The fact that you are not bothered by what has been brought froth, shown by your calm state, makes the transgressor look like and idiot as he was unsuccessful in lowering your standard, and you removing yourself from their vasinity in a polite manor, buys you some time to keep your cool, after all you are human and eventually you will snap.

"The greatest victory, is the one not fought" Someones said that - just can't remember who but , it is quite true

Wish you all well.